Female sexual arousal – one of the greatest mysteries of nature. If men are able to experience sexual attraction after a few seconds, then the representatives of the beautiful half of humanity only dreams of. Unfortunately, far not all people know how to properly excite a girl.
Immediately it is worth noting the main and the obvious fact – all women are different. One young lady feel sexual arousal, you will need a few passionate kisses, the other a few familiar words, the third will not start without exciting massage.
And all the same psychology, anatomy and life experience suggests that it is a standard, proven ways to thrill women.
What the excited girl? Fatigue throughout the body, hot vagina, fuzzy appearance – the typical signs of sexual arousal in women. The surrounding world ceases to exist, in your head there won't be one a reasonable idea. Animal instincts want to escape out, the body requires a continuation and what is very important, the final release.
Signs of sexual arousal in girls
As usual, the girl should be 15 minutes active and passive love to experience these feelings. How this mysterious process, in terms of physiology?
During active stroking, particularly stimulation of the clitoris and the breasts, the blood come to the genitals. Appear the moisture between my thighs, increases the heart rate and body temperature, becoming more frequent breath. Tense the muscles of the lower abdomen – another classic symptom of excited female body.
Male and female stimulation – the distinctive features:
- In men's attraction to the girl arises quickly. A typical example: after the street it's a spectacular woman with a good figure. Mini-skirts and high heels emphasize the beauty of long legs. All right, but not the the caller of make-up, groomed hair, a pleasant smell of perfume... How many men, when looking at this seductress, you will feel sexual excitement? Yes, almost everything!
- In women it is more difficult and confusing. A man may be quite ordinary appearance, with a "beer" belly, bald, and a bit similar to the athlete. And yet it will be popular with women. Why? Because he knows that a woman's psychology. Such a man is always on top of the sexual Olympus.
The truth № 1. How to excite a girl? Produce the impression of a strong man. Create the image of the conqueror, the dominant.
A woman wants a strong man. Who will be able to protect you in case of danger. In this regard, modern ladies are a little different from their prehistoric predecessors. What kind of a man he had dozens of lovers a few centuries back? The one who killed more of all the animals and enemies, who best of all the hunt, who was master in the house!
Physical factors of sexual arousal in women
And yet, as if trying to a man to please girls "oddities" in the emotional area, there are two female physiological factors that cannot be ignore:
- the frequency of intimate relations in women;
- day of the menstrual cycle.
If in a woman it was a big break in sex, she is excited faster than her loving counterpart. Nature requires that your body wants to caress and male embrace.
However, you cannot rule out previous sexual experience. Intimate proximity, may not result in girls of unpleasant memories, and stagnation in the sexual area, should be connected with painful associations.
Women in every period of the menstrual cycle have different degrees of sexual appetite. The easiest to excite girl during ovulation, and harder, just just before menstruation.
During ovulation a woman is experiencing a huge sexual desire. It is a natural phenomenon is predetermined by nature. In this period it is the easiest to get pregnant, so the woman is excited, easily and without much effort from the partner.
Before menses, on the contrary, sexual desire is almost at zero. The reason for the high levels of hormones in the body, irritability, pain in the lower abdomen.
In the course is psychology. Compliments, conversations and atmosphere.
Woman always appreciate a decent male attention. It flatters your vanity to her, it helps to keep in shape. Most of the ladies doing make-up, visit beauty salons and buy sex, but not dissolute clothes to please men.
The truth № 2. No woman can remain indifferent to sincere compliments. The words of admiration will excite!
You want to excite a woman? Express her support. One meaningless expression of admiration, and the woman wants to continue dating. Especially sought after is a compliment on appearance (otherwise, why follow?). Nice to be noted and the feminine intellect, modesty, a cheerful temperament.
Classic compliments, which never failed:
- "You have a very nice smile (beautiful eyes, soft hands)".
- "With you it's easy to talk".
- "You, on the face of it the dress (sweater, hat)".
A male voice – a good helper, when the excited girls. Deep, with a little wheezing that tunes the woman on the right wave.
The truth № 3. How to excite a woman, a man must speak quietly and clearly, don't miss the opportunity to touch the partner.
The man interested in about the desired woman. Now you need to make darling felt confidence in him. Because women perceive sex as something more than a natural need of the body. Mostly girls want to know more of your partner, to feel his power, reliability.
As a man able to properly excite a woman? The method of simple and rich conversation!
The truth № 4. You want to excite a woman? Start asking questions of a personal nature: what she likes for breakfast, what clothes she prefers to wear, the most valued in humans.
A woman will never be able to excite, if it is uncomfortable in the presence of a partner. The less discomfort it brings the process of communication, the greater chance they have men to see the excitement the girls.
If the relationship is already passed in the period candy and flowers, then as a strong pump factors appropriate to talk about sex. A short history of a sexual nature, she said in a whisper and in the ear, causes great sexual desire in women. This is the reason why it is not possible to realize the fact that men love to watch at the spicy scenes, and women – to talk about them.
The truth № 5. How to excite a woman? Invite her on a date, where will be a fairy tale atmosphere.
A romantic date, where there is a stunning atmosphere in which to organize with the aim of seduction. The final good intimate encounters always single – sex.
Quiet music, scent of flowers and candles, soft drinks, light snacks – great atmosphere in the evenings is ready! If during a date a man will behave kindly, to maintain a light conversation, a woman in such conditions, you definitely will feel sexual attraction.
In the female the head of the cycle in the course of a thought: "What's a nice, pleasant man! It is for me, it had been preparing for!" A man who makes beautiful things, strongly excites.
Touches and other excitatory action
Excitement women accrues gradually, step by step. And especially with a new partner. Touch need subtly: to remove the eyelash with a century, is put your hand on your waist when entering the restaurant, you select the curl of hairstyles. They are so soft, the other tv hits will eventually play an important role.
Even women who love long-lasting eye contact. Man, that is a long time looking into the eyes of a partner, there is interest in her. Maybe even admiration, acceptance. The look should be warm, accompanied by a barely noticeable smile.
The truth № 6. Nearly all women are excited from the kisses on the neck and décolletage.
Kissing on the neck, slowly at first, the language to use. Start is the best in the vicinity of the right or left ear, gradually moving to the middle. Then you can work and language. Lick a piece of skin on the neck wound and dream to lick it. You can gently bite, stick to the lips. And again tenderly kissed.
Start stroking the breast from the upper part of the neck, near the collarbone. Gradually sink to the nipples.
Nipples – very sensitive organ. With them it should be treated especially gently. Separate tongue around the nipple, gently press the lips, gently kiss – a few of these movements are able to excite the girl to folly.
Exciting massage of the breast is able to melt the "snow queen". The touch must be thorough, but friendly. Alternative tingling, stroking, rubbing. Near the nipple it is best to limit only the stroking and rubbing.
A woman loves to feel it on my body, strong male hands. It gives her a sense of security and reliability.
The truth № 7. Many women highly aroused from the slow stroking of the inner part of the thighs and buttocks.
Intimate caressing or kissing should be carried out with forethought. For a woman, stimulation of the clitoris by hand – this is unacceptable, the second is the same with joy to treat this profession. That is why, before going directly to the area, need to look at the ground. To make the right conclusions about the nature of the chosen one, way of upbringing, attitudes.
For caresses the clitoris hands of men should be soft and warm. A gentle, barely perceptible movement to touch the clitoris of a girl. For the moment, to repeat the movement. Touching the clitoris with your fingers, almost tangibly. Deal first you need to carefully, slowly. Let men's hand a few seconds to lie down between the woman's hip.
Now it is possible to stroking, lightly press on the clitoris. Caress this delicate intimate part of the girl body rhythmically and gently. It is okay, if a man be governed by the alternation of stroking and pressure. Imagine, that the clitoris – this is the canvas, and finger – brush. Draw on this canvas, diagonal lines, large and small circles.
The spontaneity, the male excitement and commitment
Women like variety in sex. This is especially true for couples who already have many years together. The usual sexy scenario begins: the night, the kids have to sleep, darkness, a few timid kisses and directly intimate closeness.
A man who wants to excite a woman, should be able to dream. Spontaneous sex after work directly in the shoes interesting! Right there in the hallway, exposing only the sexual organs. If the action is accompanied by a laugh, or words, full of passion, a man you don't even have long to stroke the baby. Let the caresses of tongue and hands for other occasions. A few passionate kisses on the lips, and the woman is already very weak from the passion.
The truth № 8. Unplanned intimacy excites a woman.
A man may not hide their excitement. Wife likes it, is to see the male sex drive. Be cherished, they are irreplaceable – it's a dream for all representatives of the beautiful half of humanity.
The truth № 9. A man can tell about his strong sexual excitement, and the woman is already ready to give him up.
Nature so own, that the female gender likes to feel that beside me a strong man's shoulder. A woman who always dominated in the field, fears that the man will bring her pleasure. Therefore, it is easier to take the initiative in their hands, than then to experience the disappointment, shame, and dissatisfaction with a partner.
To sum it up. How to excite a girl, you will need:
- act like strong, confident men;
- the creation of a suitable for sex the atmosphere of a romantic and pensioners;
- make compliments;
- be a gentleman, talk with partnerth;
- not to forget to "accidentally" touch a woman;
- show imagination;
- have in its arsenal a wide range of strokes.
What you have to do!
- be aggressive;
- to speak loudly, argue, prove your point of view;
- constantly keep quiet;
- be the skinny on the kissing and petting;
- think only about your own pleasure, to look at a woman as a normal sexual object.